• 3 Ways To Talk Your Way Into A Second Date!

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    A successful first date conversation has less to do with what you say and more with how you say it. Below are some tips to help you talk your way to a second date.

    Tip #1: Have confident body language

    First dates can be nerve-racking for the sheer fact that you don’t always know what to expect. However, there are a few tricks to looking confident even when you’re quaking in your heels. First, maintain eye contact throughout your conversation (but don’t over-do it; it’s not a staring contest!) If you feel your voice becoming shaky, stop for a moment and take a deep breath before you resume speaking. Also, watch for any nervous behaviors like tapping your fingers on the table or shaking your foot. Besides potentially annoying your date, they are dead giveaways that you’re anxious. When all else fails, acknowledge the elephant in the room and admit you are excited to be there, but feeling a little jittery. (He’s probably nervous too.)

    Tip #2: Don’t be a chatterbox

    Sometimes we get so wrapped up in wanting our date to like us that we forget that we’re supposed to be evaluating his potential as well. Counteract this and avoid talking too much by asking him fun, insightful questions that will helpfully reveal what he’s passionate about. Some ideas to jump-start the conversation: Do you have any siblings? How about pets? Where has been your favorite place to travel to? Have you read any good books or seen any films recently? Don’t forget to follow-up on what he’s saying if anything in particular catches your interest.

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    Tip #3: Keep your answers concise and upbeat

    On a first date, you don’t want to be guilty of TMI. You both are just getting to know one another, so it’s best to accentuate the positive, as the saying goes.

    Foe example, if you’re currently unemployed (which is understandable in this grim economy) and he asks you what you do for a living, just mention that you’re currently between jobs and looking. Don’t go on and on about what a jerk your former boss was and how unfair it was that they laid you off. You risk turning him off and giving him the impression that you’re a high-drama person, even if you’re not.

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